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Are you ready?   Ask your Self  these questions...
 


Tantra begins with an examination of your "rules".
How much longer?
Renoir
  • Do you expect your partner to read your mind ?
  • Are you waiting for him to surrender first?
  • Do you use femininity for manipulation?
  • Is sexuality your very best weapon?
  • Can you tell a man how to please you?
  • Do you know your own Power? Fear it?
  • Do you understand your man’s primary motive?
  • Have you ever been in love...with yourself?
  • How alone are you?
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EMPOWERMENT FOR WOMEN

According to Oprah (as well as many others) on Women's sexuality …

  • A good sex life is important to a woman's overall health.

    Over HALF of women are Non Orgasmic…that means that most women are largely UNSATISFIED with their sex lives.
     
    AM I TALKING ABOUT YOU?


    Are you ready to claim your pleasure?... it is your birthright!

  • The main reason… a lack of knowledge about their bodies and vaginas, or have a poor self image.
  • Most women are also caught in the "Good girl/Bad girl" trap and unable to express themselves to their partners effectively.
  • In my opinion, one of the key factors is your ability to surrender to yourself and your feelings and feel SAFE all at the same time.
  • There are many simple easy to learn effective techniques available to make the changes that can lead to a happier healthier sex life, and quality of life in all your relating from your authentic self.

    My sessions are non sexual, positive touch and energy so that you feel into your ability to open to the pleasure in your body!
     
  • The practical benefits of being sexual centered.
     
  • As women we control all the sex on the planet. This is changing as men become more responsible for their own sexuality and personal power.
  • Understand the power of your vagina/womb or "Yoni"
  • Learn how to use this" control" to your advantage. Not be confused with manipulation. We are the greatest contributor of our feelings of oppression that we place on men and patriarchy.
  • Take control and learn to ask clearly for what you want and need from your partner.
  • Learn to validate yourself and see you own value, as you stop looking for your worth as a woman from men the dynamic of your sex life changes.
  • Men are waiting to love and please, if we learn how to effectively teach them what our specific needs are.
  • A positive sex life enhances your overall physical and mental health.
  • Start TODAY and see positive changes in all your relationships.



A personal letter from Cheri
to a Woman on The Verge
Your safe, sane Guide Inside

(THE QUOTE) by David Deida on
Men's and Women's Spiritual Growth

"Before I understood how to open with you, I tried
giving you orgasms so I knew I was a good lover.
But now, all I want is your surrender. I want your
heart's pleasure to ripple through your open body
and saturate my life with your love.

Your body's openness to love's flow draws me into
you, and through your heart's surrender I am opened
to the love that lives as the universe. Whether you
have an orgasm or not while we make love, your
body's trust and devotional openness is my secret
doorway to love's deepest bliss."

—from "Dear Lover," a book by David Deida
Copyright © 2001 by David Deida

Tantra empowers THE WOMAN in You
Dear (H),
I think this quote describes (his) feelings, and all men's feelings. I want to acknowledge you for looking into where you stop yourself from being all you can be, as a person not just a woman.

The parts of you as woman that were invalidated all your life you have learned to live without. I say that it becomes a box we live in and something that dictates what we can and can not experience in life. Whether we live life FULLY alive or settle for only what we consider safe.

The Divine feminine aspect is what holds the key to full expression of life force and unity with all Life—the experience of ONENESS we all are—without any imposed limits that keep us small and longing. It is Divine Union with ourselves, really, not just a partner. The partner is just the reflection. The Divine Union within and with all things—without limits—is enlightenment. Is that not why we are all doing this, whatever our Path is?

I would love to help you experience yourself as free, whole and complete in a safe and loving way, embracing all aspects, (even the ones we are afraid of ), but you have to really want that for yourself. More than any relationship, the relationship with the self and the One. The ego does not want things to change for any of us. It is the ego that fears the annihilation of the self we have carefully constructed to spare us from our own pain and hurt.

I have experienced that allowing the perceived hurt, pain, and fear, in a safe controlled environment is the most liberating thing there is and it is not nearly as bad as we think it will be! From that a new freedom to just BE emerges. That is what I see as possible for you personally aside from anything else and everything else shifts to a new level in the process. More authentic expression emerges, and the need to guard and protect ourselves from life's ups and downs diminishes.

I believe the ultimate goal for us all is unconditional LOVE for ourselves—then others. We can only experience that love from others when we truly love and can embrace ALL aspects of our being, without judgement.

I believe you are hiding from your own wholeness. It is the buried PERCEIVED guilt and shame you carry from the choices you made to be with (him), when society says you should have done it differently.

Whether you work it out with (him), a man who truly loves you and wants nothing less than ALL of you, or not. If you don't work it out there, it will be recreated in your next relationship, or you will avoid relationships, and never fully realize your wholeness. That may sound harsh but it is the bottom line.

What ever you choose is OK but be clear in your choice, it will affect how you live the rest of your life. I hope this will give you more food for thought. Thanks for allowing me to contribute in your search for Intimate Enlightenment. It comes from my heart. I would be honored to assist you in this most sacred process.

I honor you as my sacred sister,
Cheri





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